Hot-tempered behavior
Is it easy to define a hot-tempered person? Of course, you say. At least when the plates are flying through the windows and the shouts make everyone go out to check what's happening, yes, it is easy to find out a hot-tempered person.
The psychologists say that it is really hard to cope with such people and suggest that everything started in the childhood. But as for me I know many people who presented the most positive behavior for a longtime, but in some years became aggressive and inclined to the confrontation. Immaturity and wrong upbringing are considered to be the most real reasons of this bad habit. Immaturity is to go away until twenty one. Wrong upbringing (too loyal or too tyrannical) promises the most miserable outcomes. The matter is that when every, even the most inoffensive, statement makes you burst out like a volcano, it is not normal. Try to cope with your inner anger, count till ten or one hundred and ten to calm down, after that think what makes you feel so anxious. Perhaps, when somebody says you that right eye of yours is bigger than the left one, he/she does not want to offend you and it is not the reason to shout on him/her in public. Walk out the room and talk to yourself in a very quiet manner. Think of your friends and relatives, what they feel when you are in rage. The children suffer from aggressiveness in the family and could inherit your way of conduct. Is it something you would like to give your children?
Are you sure that nobody understands you or nobody is able to share your point of view? Are you sure that you can make everybody think alike if you give a cry? They rather would try to calm you down, however, after some similar cases they would definitely give up and leave you alone.