Laziness
Passive life position could be a real reason of laziness. A person just pretends that he/she is not able to complete the task. Of course, it is easier to be stupid than take the responsibility. This approach to a life starts in the teenage period. There are many thing wish draw a teens attention – TV set, computer, socializing. Usually people have to overcome it with some tips of their teachers and parents. But what if the parents' model is different? What if a child inherits the parents' attitude to the social roles and life? Lack of motivation is definitely another reason for laziness. Fortunately, it is easy to motivate a person in a very simple way – financially, mentally or psychologically. What does prevent a person to live a stable and sufficient life? What does prevent someone to get up and start doing something in order to complete the task or achieve the goal? Sometimes, the tremendous goals seem to be too complex and far to achieve. Perhaps, everyone knows this feeling when you are losing heart. It seems to you that you have not the heart to do anything. In such case, it is better to break the big goal into the small tasks and achieve them one by one. When you complete the part, start another one immediately. And repeat yourself that you can, you are able to overcome every trouble to achieve your goal.
Self-control is the derivation of active life position, but at the same time self-control depends on your motivation to do something. Personal esteem, confidence, development and worth depend on your ability to take the things into your hands and start doing what you wish to do.